There aren’t enough good things that can be said about a summer wedding. It’s a beautiful time of year to get married—and one of the few months of the year when the temperatures are (hopefully) fantastic! Yet even with all those positive vibes, planning a summer wedding still comes with its fair share of mistakes that leave couples and their guests in hot water (or weather). Here are a few of the most common summer wedding mistakes—and what you can learn from them.
Not having a plan B
Most of the time, summer comes with its fair share of beautiful days with sunshine and pleasant weather. The key word here is “most”—and unfortunately it’s a word that summer brides and grooms count far too much on.
Unfortunately, summer also comes with rain, thunderstorms, scorching heat, and huge temperature swings. These are all things couples should plan for (with an indoor venue, emergency kits, last-minute props, etc.), even when the weather forecast includes a “small chance of…” The lesson is to plan accordingly—and enjoy the results! A rainy wedding day can turn into a series of one-of-a-kind photo opps with umbrellas and rain boots. A hot wedding day can stir up a lot of fun with fans.
Ignoring your hot guests
Your big day is your day, but don’t forget the people that have taken the time to celebrate it with you. The good news is that keeping guests cool doesn’t have to take a ton of effort. If you are holding an outdoor ceremony, think about scheduling your wedding ceremony when the sun isn’t blazing down on you and your guests. If a steamy ceremony isn’t avoidable, look for wedding venues with air conditioning for a welcome reprieve from the heat.
Cooling stations are another great way to cool your guests (and a great favor idea!) These stylish containers can be placed strategically in areas where guests circulate. Cooling stations can contain water, fans, mosquito spray, sunscreen, flip flops—anything that keeps guests cool and comfortable is welcome.
Setting yourself up for a meltdown
Overdressing is a common couple mistake. So many couples are guilty! As much as you want to look fantastic on your wedding day, don’t forget to think about your own comfort on your big day. When planning your attire, look for fabrics (and shoes!) that aren’t stuffy or cumbersome.
As long as you are at it, do the same for your attendants. (They’ll appreciate it!) If you do want an incredibly formal wedding ceremony, give your attendants gifts they can use after to keep cool. Fans are an obvious choice, as are flip flops (glam them up for a personalized formal test) and sunglasses. Your attendants are going to appreciate it, especially when the day is sizzling.
Not planning for bad weather
Every couple dreams of a sunny summer wedding. Unfortunately, rain and thunderstorms can be just as disastrous. You and your guests don’t want muddy shoes and soaked outfits. If you have any doubts about the weather, consider holding the ceremony in a venue with space for the ceremony and reception (with fantastic décor that brings the outdoors in).
Leaving guests hungry
The best summer wedding menu is full of fresh, seasonal tastes that are light and delicious—but not too light. Couples need to choose the right items that fit the season and atmosphere, but aren’t too light and too heavy. Guests love the freshest summer wedding menu dishes with fresh fruits and vegetables and pastas and meats with a seasonal flavor.
The summer wedding mistake most couples make is selecting a wedding menu that’s too light, leaving guests hungry and heading for the exit. Instead, couples should choose a caterer carefully that can help plan a full menu of light appetizers and entrees (plus a bonus late night course that keeps everyone on the dance floor).
Serving only cocktails
Guests love summer wedding cocktails, and couples love to come up with unique summer cocktail recipes suitable for their special day. However, summer wedding cocktails shouldn’t be the only item on your beverage menu (especially when it’s hot).
Instead, make sure you give guests plenty of opportunities to hydrate throughout the wedding day. Put bottled water out for guests after the ceremony (personalize the water bottles for a fun twist). For a more formal twist, have a waitress serve water (with delicious fruit added for a summer flavor) during the cocktail hour. Your effort to keep guests (and yourselves) shouldn’t stop there; instead hydrate your guests during dinner, at the bar, and near the dance floor. Your guests’ll appreciate the chance to fuel up, and you’ll appreciate the fact that everyone is hydrated and enjoying themselves.
Not asking about entertainment restrictions
A summer wedding wouldn’t be complete without unique summer entertainment. There are some really neat ideas that fit the season (like fireworks and sparklers!) Unfortunately, many of those summertime entertainment ideas are limited by local municipalities (i.e. curfews for volume, firework and sparkler permits, etc.) If you decide on a really unique summer wedding entertainment, always ask the venue before you set anything in stone; you don’t want your idea for the ultimate wedding entertainment to turn into a wedding day regret.